Maria Dorian is Abusing my Sister Olivia

My name is Uriah Dorian and on May 2, 2022 my suspicions that my mother Maria Dorian is verbally and psychologically abusing my sister were unfortunately confirmed. This video details how my dad and I confirmed that this abuse is taking place:

The reason that I say that my suspicions were confirmed when I heard the message in the video is because I have heard this type of insane yelling in messages that my mom has left in the past. Unfortunately, my mom has always managed to erase these past messages leaving me wondering if I actually heard what I thought I heard. This last time was different because I was determined to record this type of messages should any more be sent. Needless to say that I was horrified and deeply saddened by what I managed to record. Not only that but my dad and I were horrified by my mom’s response when confronted about this. It appears that she sees nothing wrong in her behavior leading me to believe that she has normalized abusing my sister in this manner.

This also appears to be the case with my two brothers who are the other adults that reside with my sister. For example, right after I recorded the audio of my mother berating my sister I sent an Instagram message to my older brother to show him what I recorded. I was hoping that he would be as shocked as I was with the audio and that he would confront my mother about it. As you can see from the screen capture this was unfortunately not the case.

Sadly, I got some very immature responses that indicate that my brothers have also normalized the way that my mother is disrespecting my little sister. Even though they mocked me and had a dismissive attitude about my concerns I do not hold it against them. They are really in no position to stand up to my mom. They have never stood up to her and it seems like they never will so just like my sister, they are victims.

Since this incident took place my mom has blocked my dad and I from communicating with Olivia. Apparently, my mom didn’t like that my dad called her right after the message to tell her that disrespecting Olivia by cussing and threatening her is unacceptable. If that’s not the reason we have been blocked from communicating with Olivia then we don’t know the reason because my mom hasn’t told us.

My mom has also taken down her Facebook page where for the past two years she had put her marital status as divorced even though she is still married to my dad. My guess is that she knows she did something wrong even though she won’t admit it so she is hiding her Facebook page to keep us from reaching out to her contacts with this information.

I need your help. If you have business dealings with Maria Dorian you are enabling her abusive behavior towards my little sister. My mom needs to move back to Texas where she can go to therapy and be supported by her close family. She does not need to live in Spain where she is not only keeping my dad and I from having any contact with my sister but where she is far from any accountability.

If you are brave then I need you to confront Maria about her behavior so that she knows that treating a child like she did in the recording is unacceptable. Please do not stand by and do nothing. I’m begging.

Most importantly, if you are a person of faith please pray for Olivia and for all little girls that are victims of abuse at the hands of the adults that they are depending on.

False Allegations

So at this point you might be wondering why my dad and I live in the United States while my mom, sister, and brothers live in Spain. It all started when the whole family moved to Spain in September of 2017 after the sale of my parent’s cleaning business. The adventure was supposed to last one year but after the sale of my parent’s software company my mom and dad decided a year went by to fast so they extended their stay. Eventually my dad encouraged my mom to start a virtual assistant company and when that took off they decided to stay even longer.

By May of 2020 we had been living in Spain for two and a half years and my dad had already been suggesting to my mom that it was time to go back to the states. Then Spain enforced a hard lockdown because of the pandemic and my mother and father began to have arguments about whether it was time to leave. My mother was stating that we had run out of money and that their Virtual Assistant company was loosing clients. This alarmed my dad who insisted that it was time to leave Spain. He didn’t really believe that we had run out of money but my mom would not let him access the finances so he couldn’t be sure.

The inability to see the finances only served to strengthen my dad’s resolve to leave Spain. However, my mother dismissed his concerns by calling him a conspiracy theorist and saying that she believed that the lockdowns would only last two weeks and that everything would return to normal.

During that time my mom began to exhibit strange over-the-top behavior that would end up proving to be an indication of what was to come. For instance, I remember one evening when my mom talked loudly in an aggressive and emotional manner at my dad as she went around the apartment opening windows. My dad followed behind closing windows and telling her that he didn’t want to disturb the neighbors. It was at this time that my dad asked me to secretly record any arguments or strange behavior that were exhibited by my mom.

I do have some video from that time period but regretfully, I was not recording my mother and brother’s bizarre behavior on the craziest of those days. That was the day that my dad and I were thrown in jail. I wish I could show you what happened but all I have is my account.

Perhaps the reason that I didn’t record anything on that day was because the morning that my dad and I were thrown in jail was uneventful except for one detail. You see, my mom said that she wanted to get out of the house after being cooped up because of the lockdown. My dad had always done all of the shopping for us, even before we got to Spain. Anyway, because she was going to go to the market with my dad she did something that she had not done during the lockdown up until that point. She took a shower and got fully dressed. I remember this distinctly because my dad and I talked about our YouTube channel while he waited for her to get ready. When mom finally came out fully dressed and ready to go she announced that she wasn’t going to go after all and so my dad went to the grocery store by himself.

About an hour and a half later I heard the neighbors clapping out on their balconies. It was a daily ritual in Spain for everyone to show their support for the healthcare workers and first responders during the pandemic. When I got to the living room I saw my mom standing on the balcony next to my younger brother looking up towards the upstairs apartment. As I got closer I clearly heard my mom say “call the cops, he’s trying to kill us!” Horrified, I quickly got on the balcony and looked up to find our American upstairs neighbor looking down at me. I said, “don’t listen to her, no one is trying to kill us, do not call the cops!” To which he replied with a look of bewilderment, “I don’t even know how to call the cops!”

At this point my mom began yelling and arguing with me for interfering. In all the commotion I saw my younger brother take my sister out of the apartment. This was not only strange because my brother never just left the apartment with my 5 year old sister but also because there was nowhere for them to go since the city was under lockdown.

After a few minutes my mom refused to calm down and that’s when my dad walked in. He set the groceries down and asked “what’s going on?” My mom was acting crazy. Her eyes were bulging and she was yelling incoherently. My dad couldn’t get a straight answer from her. Then he asked where Olivia was and I told him that I saw her go out the door but in the commotion I didn’t mention that she left with my brother or that I thought I saw them go upstairs. It was too late. My dad sprinted out the door and headed downstairs looking for my sister.

During the time that my dad was out looking for my sister my mom and my older brother left the apartment. The last thing my older brother said to me before leaving was “join us.” It was at that moment that I put it all together. My mom taking a shower and getting dressed, my younger brother taking my sister out of the apartment as if on que, and now this comment. The whole thing was premeditated. Until then it just seemed to be a chaotic random set of confusing events but that comment made all of the strange events leading up to that day make sense.

When my dad returned after looking for my sister he called the police and told them that my sister was missing. The police told him to stay put and that they would be right over. Dad asked me where everybody was. It was then that I told him that I had seen mom telling the neighbor on the balcony to call the police because she said that he was trying to kill everyone. Suddenly the cops arrived and arrested the both of us. The Spanish cops didn’t investigate or even ask any us questions. They simply grabbed us and took us away. My dad and I left our home like criminals in handcuffs for all of the neighbors to see.

To make a long story short we spent the night and the following day in jail. We didn’t get out until 10pm the following evening. When we got out of jail there was a strict curfew in Valencia so dad and I had to avoid the police as we walked towards the center of town not knowing where we would spend the night.

When we left the jail my dad was told that he had a restraining order and couldn’t return home. My mother would have been made aware of this fact before he was released. However, this was not good enough protection for my mom. She moved out of our apartment that evening before we were released and moved into a new one in another part of town. This effectively left both of us homeless. Not only that but all of the hotels were closed because of the lockdown so my dad and I spent a cold night under a tarp near the center of town.

That night under the tarp my dad and I talked about what had happened. It was clear to us that this was akin to premeditated murder. After all, sending two people to jail in a foreign country during a pandemic through false accusations was just plain criminal. From my perspective my parents didn’t have any problems other than my mom starting arguments that my dad would turn into some type of comical come back. Nothing that warranted making false allegations to get rid of us.

We concluded that the only logical explanation for all this was that mom made false allegations to the police in order to steal the money that she has been hiding from my dad. She got rid of dad to steal his money and play the victim in one move and if me and dad died in the process then our version of the facts would die with us. I was simply sacrificed because my mom knows I would never go along with such a diabolical plan.

That night under the tarp my dad used what little batteries my phone had left to call my his mother in Florida. She told him that my mom had already called her and that my mom was saying that dad had cut her wrist and punched my brother in the face. My mom had made my dad seem like an out of control maniac. In fact this is what she stated on the police report. Translation below:

Maria’s declaration to the police translated:

On Friday 3/27/20 in the evening between 10 and 11pm an argument began. They (mom and dad) had never fought before. He (dad) began yelling at the family and suddenly he grabbed her (mom) by the neck and pushed her while she was sitting down. He took her passports from her purse and hid them.

Once he calmed down, he told her to empty her purse while he pulled a knife from a drawer. He put the knife on her arm and then he put the knife in his pocket.

She declared that there were no subsequent fights in in the three days since the incident had happened. She believes that he has mental problems and that he is very nervous about the situation regarding the COVID-19 and the lockdown.

Yesterday, between 1:30 and 2pm before calling the police he (dad) pushed her, and she (mom) fell down.  She did not need to be medically attended to for these aggressions.

He threatened to kill the entire family when he grabbed the knife in the kitchen.

He has told her that he is going to KILL THE ENTIRE FAMILY and that he is going to stab her in the eyes as well as his daughter’s eyes and that he will kill his daughter and this will be the last thing she sees before he kills her.

Her 17 (my younger brother) and 21 (my older brother) year old children were witnesses to all of this. They are afraid of the husband (dad).

She doesn’t remember if he threatened her with the knife.
It was her son (me) that twisted her wrist.
In a previous incident that had happened 2 years previously she didn’t denounce him when he licked her face while grabbing her neck in front of the children.
She did not hit anything when he grabbed her by the throat on 3/27/20
He regularly pushes her.

My dad’s “lawyer” asks if he (dad) has psychological problems and she (mom) states that she believes that he has had mental problems for the past three years. Her husband has no addictions.

So according to this dad and I go bonkers and start acting crazy because dad is nervous about COVID-19. I guess it’s possible but notice how my mother says that only my brothers are witnesses. That’s simply impossible. Our apartment was tiny and my room was the closest to the kitchen and living room where the alleged incidents took place. I was always with dad where as my brothers were usually in their rooms further back in the apartment playing video games. Notice how my mom discredits me by saying that I twisted her wrist. So I didn’t witness anything I just twisted her wrist. To this day I don’t understand how the Spanish police arrested us with such nonsense.

The Spanish police didn’t ask my dad or I what had happened. If they had they could have seen that my dad had just got back from grocery shopping. Just a few weeks earlier my mom and brothers took a two week trip to the United States. My mom had no problem leaving Olivia with my dad and I during that time. She had left Olivia in the care of my dad several times in the past three years but she told the police that she thought dad had mental problems? Who leaves their child with the mentally ill?

I could go on and on about the ridiculousness of these allegations but suffice it to say that the “incidents” reported by my mom to the police never happened. I can say that with confidence because I was always with my dad. Where my mom and brothers would go out to eat together regularly without us dad and I have to same Keto diet and so we seldom ate out. We work out at the same gym. We were working together on a YouTube channel at the time. We were never apart.

These are swiss cheese allegations that have negatively impacted the lives of many people. Shame on the Spanish judicial system, shame on their police, and shame on Maria and my brothers for doing this to us.

On the night that my dad and I slept under a tarp my mom told my dad’s mother that she thought my dad and I were going to commit suicide. In the end my grandma said that she knew her son and that she didn’t believe her son would do these things and that she should have got a marriage counselor or reached out to family before calling the police. At that point my mother and grandmother stopped communicating.

By running a smear campaign with my grandma my mom was in effect attempting to poison the well with the one person that could help us. That is cold blooded. Especially because there is zero evidence for any of the crazy allegations in the police report. It’s all hearsay designed to gain sympathy after perpetrating a heinous act in order to commit theft.

The next day once the sun rose my dad and I ventured out from under the tarp and headed for the bus stop so that we wouldn’t draw any attention from any cops enforcing the lockdown. I was able to charge my phone at the grocery store and I texted my brother and he told me that they were preparing a place for us. Two hours later I asked if the place they were preparing was ready to which I was told that I misunderstood and that they were not preparing a place for us. By that point my dad had already contacted his brother and his brother had found us one of the few Airbnb’s available in town. We stayed there for about 5 days.

By this time it was clear to us that what my mom had effectively done by making false allegations was to get rid of my dad without having to spend a dime on a divorce lawyer. She got full custody of my sister, she got to keep all of the money from the sale of two businesses, my dad was cut off from his finances overnight so he couldn’t hire a lawyer or even stay in Spain, and my mom could do all of this while painting herself as the poor victim.

Well, as a result of her lies we were instantly at the mercy of our relatives in the U.S. and since no one knew when the lockdowns in Spain would end it was decided that dad and I would have to leave everything behind and return to the U.S. on what turned out to be one of the last flights out of Spain.

Ironically, it was my dad that told my mom about the extreme feminist courts in Spain where men have no rights. In these courts all it takes to send a man to jail, fine him, and for the woman to get full custody is an accusation from a woman. When my dad learned about this corrupt institution he told my mom that they needed to leave Spain because my brother’s and I would not be safe with these types of laws. He was worried that our lives could be ruined by a woman making false allegations.

My mom took this information and instead of listening to my dad and leaving Spain in order to protect my brothers and I she used this information to attack him and get all of the benefits that such a system offers false accusers.

I also want to point out that within a week of returning to the States my dad called my mom and told her that he needed to get his personal belongings out of storage. You see, before we all moved to Spain my dad put all of our belongings in storage so we would have everything we needed when we returned to America. My parents left the keys to the storage shed with my mom’s parents for safe keeping since the storage place was down the street from their house. However, my mom has refused to help my dad get anything out of storage saying that she was afraid that my dad would break stuff. This was and is an utterly ridiculous excuse to not help since I would be there, my father in law would be there, my uncle or aunt could be there. There are a number of people that my mom could call upon to be there when my dad got his personal belongings. It has now been two years and dad’s personal belongings remain in storage to this day.

Please pray for my dad and for all men that have had their lives destroyed by false allegations. Please pray for all the families that are destroyed by the evil Spanish court system. Please pray for all the dads that are separated from their kids by false accusations.

Brothers of Betrayal

If you’ve made it this far in my story you may be wondering why my brothers would go along with such a malicious plot. I have often wondered that my self and after two years of research I think I know the answer. You see, ever since my sister was born I can remember my mom devaluing my dad in front of my brothers and I. I neve liked it. In fact, I hated it and this would eventually put me at odds with my mother.

I can remember one time that my mom was driving me to a dentist appointment and she began incessantly criticizing my dad. To listen to her my dad was the most terrible human being that had ever existed. However, her picture didn’t align up at all with reality at all. My dad was my friend, he was a good dad. I couldn’t take it. I waited until the car stopped at a red light and I jumped out of the car and ran home. My dad was shocked to see me back so soon. I didn’t tell him what happened. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings.

That’s what I remember about my mom when my dad was not around. She would criticize him and criticize him as if that was her favorite topic. I couldn’t tolerate it but my brothers didn’t seem to mind. They bought into it and as time passed by my brothers who had a great relationship with my dad as they grew up grew colder and colder towards him. He couldn’t understand it. Up until that point we had always defended him. Gradually, my mom managed to poison the well and the relationship between my dad and my brothers soured.

It was right after Olivia was born that my mom began to regularly threaten my dad with divorce. At first he would ask why to which she would reply with “you know why” or something vague like that. It was annoying to watch but what did I know. I eventually normalized it. She also began to threaten to take Olivia from him to which he would reply that he would never take a daughter from her mother. I think she was signaling to everyone that she was going to move on and that since she controlled the finances anyone smart would side with her. At least that’s how I took it.

Of course, my research has lead me to conclude that my brothers are suffering from a form of abuse referred to as parental alienation. It makes sense because they openly claim to be abused by my dad even though there is no evidence and I never saw anything happen. Besides, abused people tend to keep the abuse to themselves. They will even defend their abuser in many cases. That is the polar opposite of the behavior that my brothers are exhibiting. Not only can my dad do nothing right but my mom can do nothing wrong and that includes verbally mistreating my little sister. This signals to me that in all likelihood they are suffering from the attachment style know as parental alienation. That’s why I see them as victims in all of this. Even if they are adults that are actively participating they are victims.

Please pray for my brothers and all people that have been alienated from one of their parents.

Personality Disorder

My mom is the nicest person I know in public. However, in private she has a temper and you do not want to be on the wrong side of that temper. That meant that the family walked on eggshells around her.

One time when I was about eight years old we were in Denver Colorado for a cleaning convention and my mom was getting ready to go out for drinks with some of her friends. Well, I must have annoyed her as she got ready to go because I got on the wrong side of her temper. She sprayed my face with the perfume she was putting on. I can still feel my eyes burn as I recall the incident. Thank God dad was there because he rinsed my eyes out with water as he scolded her for her reckless behavior. She just continued getting ready. He told her that I was just a dopey kid and that she shouldn’t get so angry. Once, my dad washed the perfume from my face and I could barely see again she took my face in her hand and forced me to look at her and yelled “you are stupid!” My dad yelled at her and she left the hotel room while dad proceeded to comfort me.

I’m not trying to say that it was all abuse growing up but my mom was definitely not affectionate. I don’t have any memories of my mom hugging me or telling me that she loved me. That was a role that my dad took on as he realized that my mom was lacking a certain motherly instinct. Dad told me that he didn’t like the way my older brother and I were treated by my mom from the time we were babies so that made him become more of a stay at home dad. He did everything to stay home like getting his Bachelor’s Degree online so he could stay home with us. He just didn’t trust her and besides, mom told my dad that she preferred to be out working. A negative consequence of this arrangement is that my mom leveraged it to gain full control over their finances. My dad tells me that this issue was magnified when they sold their cleaning business and moved to Spain.

It was while we were in Spain that my mom started calling my dad a new derogatory word. It seemed like her favorite new insult was to call him a narcissist. If he did anything she didn’t like she called him a narcissist. If they disagreed it was because he was a narcissist. If he had an opinion he had the opinion of a narcissist. You get the picture. My dad tells me that he didn’t know what the word meant but that he just took it as an attempt to silence and devalue him. He asked her to stop calling him that multiple times but she would inevitably end up calling him a narcissist again and again.

Eventually my dad began to question whether he was a narcissist so he began to look into the topic. Whereas my dad’s favorite topic to study up until that point had always been the Bible he suddenly became obsessed with the topic of covert narcissism. My dad’s fascination with the topic of narcissism came about as a result of the fact that the more he looked into it the more that the condition explained the hostile behaviors that my mom was increasingly exhibiting.

About six months before my mom filed false charges on us my dad was obsessed with videos on YouTube by Dr. Ramani, The Little Shaman, and Surviving Narcissism. He tells me that a certain sense of foreboding grew the more he studied the topic. He was studying with the aim of figuring out a way to help my mom but most of the “experts” on YouTube were saying that there is no cure for narcissism. Besides, he didn’t have control of the finances so he was basically helpless to do anything for her. He would have to convince her that she needed help but because of her condition that was likely to backfire.

My dad tells me that ever since my sister was born my mom treated him worse and worse as time went on. He said that there was definitely no more affection coming from her. Eventually, I took notice of this behavior. I noticed that my mom acted differently towards my dad depending on if they were in public or not. In public she was nice to him and even held his hand as they walked down the street. This made me think that everything was alright between them. However, in private she was cold at best. If that bothered him he didn’t show it which also made me think that everything was alright. He would usually respond passive aggressively when she came after him by making fun of her in some way. I neve witnessed him respond in anger. That’s just not dad. He can get loud. He can get passionate or show frustration when making a point. I just never saw him get aggressive even though he put up with a lot from her.

By the time we we were in Spain her behavior got noticeably worse. From constantly threatening my dad with divorce without any explanation to devaluing him in front of my brothers it was now obvious that she hated him. It wasn’t until my mom began calling my dad a narcissist and he began to study the topic that he became aware of what was going on and how much danger he was in. In the end he knew better than to confront mom about her condition but he tells me that he felt he had no choice. I was in the kitchen on the day that he showed her the traits of narcissism that she had been exhibiting. He told her that they needed to reach out for help. For a moment there was hope because my mom said that she agreed. However, the next evening my dad and I spent the night in jail.

My mom discarded me and my dad like we were trash and she used the Spanish legal system to do it. Since then she has not reached out to me to apologize or empathize or to restart our relationship. I’m not angry because I know it’s not about me. My mom needs help. I wish she was more like Lee Hammock on YouTube. He demonstrates that with therapy a narcissist can learn to deal with their condition and become a positive force in people’s lives.

Please pray for my mom. Pray that God give her the strength to admit she is suffering from a condition and that therapy and support from friends and family is the only solution.

A Daughter and a Sister

I love my little sister. In fact, she was the inspiration for my dad and my YouTube channel called The Wally and Weezy show. We wanted to make a channel that she could enjoy as a toddler and that she would eventually know that she inspired. After mom violently discarded us we didn’t have contact with Olivia for over nine months so my dad and I made a YouTube channel called hi Olivia to wish her a happy birthday and try to reestablish contact. This worked to get my mom to open up communications and we have been talking regularly with Olivia until recently.

Unfortunately, my mom has granted herself absolute power in my dad and my ability to have access to my sister. In fact, Olivia may have been trying to contact my dad when the message of my mom verbally assaulting her was sent. You can hear my mom yelling at Olivia to give her the phone. We have not had contact with Olivia since that day and we are very concerned about her.

Both dad and I miss my sister terribly but there is nothing we can do. We simply do not have the ability to go to Spain. My mom on the other hand works online and can afford to come back to the U.S. as her entire business is online and U.S. based. About 6 months ago my dad tried to convince my mom to come home but she told him that she would not move back to the states because she can’t afford a private chef in America like she can in Spain. Apparently, it’s more important to her that she maintain her lifestyle than for her daughter to have a dad and a brother close by that love her.

There is more that I could write but I think I’ve said enough for now. I know that in the scheme of things my family’s problems might seem trivial to some. However, I couldn’t keep this to myself. I could not live with myself if I just stood back and did nothing.

Conclusion

I am terrified for what can happen to my sister. I believe that my mom is impulsive and reckless and her condition makes her dangerous. I have created this post primarily as a way to put a spotlight on my sister to keep my mom from hurting her. If you see my sister please keep an eye out for signs of physical abuse.

If you are doing business with Task Away VA then you are enabling my mom’s wicked behavior by giving her the means to stay in Europe where she is far from the help and support that she needs. Please find another virtual assistant company to do business with. Please don’t enable her downward spiral.

If you are a family member and you do not confront Maria about this then you are condoning her behavior and as such are partially responsible for it. Please be brave and do what’s right.

If you are a stranger and you have stumbled across this information by chance then I encourage you to educate yourself about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

If you are a person of faith please pray that my mom return to the states to get therapy so that she can learn to deal with her condition and so my dad can be with his daughter and I can be with my sister.

Please pray that my brothers recover from the parental alienation they are suffering from.

Most of all pray for my sister Olivia as nobody should have to grow up with an abusive parent.

Thank you for your time,

Uriah Dorian
uriah@prayersforolivia.com